I believe we need to do a lot less thinking about ourselves and a lot more caring for others. Especially the people who we dislike. Because chances are that the people who hurt us are also hurting. It's never easy, but it's absolutely necessary. Sympathize. Don't criticize. And above all, empathize.
Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless.
Not to speak is to speak.
Not to act is to act.